Sunday, January 24, 2010

Friends? Love? Myspace?

So the emails started. We would talk through emails a lot. It got to the point that if I didn't get to talk to him at least once a day I started having a nervous break down. lol. Ok, it wasn't that bad, but you get the point. We were best friends. Then one day when we got back from a Wednesday night youth service, I went home to check myspace.... Hubby was on and had sent me a message. I was confused when I opened it, at that time I didn't even think of him as more than a friend. I hadn't thought about it though because I knew Hubby and he wasn't the type to be interested in girls so I had decided to not like him as more than a friend so I wouldn't end up with a broken heart. However, the email he sent me that night got me to thinking.
He asked me for "help" (unfortunately we don't have his first initial email) but it basically said he had a crush on this girl and he wasn't sure if she liked him, and that he didn't know how to tell if a girl liked him or not (he still doesn't know when a girl is flirting with him, lol) and he wanted my help because he wasn't sure if she liked him as just a friend or more. Or if perhaps she thought of the relationship as a brother/sister type relationship.
I didn't think anything of it at the time and so I replied telling him girls are strange and shouldn't tried to be figured out. lol. Something like that anyway, and that he should just wait it out for a bit because she would more than likely do something to give herself away. haha.
I couldn't sleep that night. The thought of him liking someone else was scary. I didn't know he was capable of liking a girl as more than a friend. lol. I thought we had cooties. As I thoguht about it I realized I liked him more than I was admitting. I wasn't telling anyone either because I KNEW I wasn't the girl he was talking about! I couldn't be! And I didn't want to fall head over heals for him when I knew he liked someone else. But I couldn't deny the feeling. So I decided it was time to act! And the following messages is what took place.....
From me, dated 3/13/2007
Okay, it's your turn to help me out a lil. LOL So I have this crush on a guy. But, he acts as though we are just friends...like brother/sister. How do tell if he likes me or not? I'm confused. Men are so confusing..LOL. Please help. Thanx.
From hubby, 3/16/2007
hmmm you could ask him unless you want to remain anonymous for now
most of the times theyll pick on you
if you want more plz desposit 50 cents
lol jk if you want more tell me how he acts
From me, 3/16/2007
LOL. okay here is 50 cents. haha. I do want to remain anonymous for now. But, he acts like we are just friends. I highly doubt he even likes me:( but anyway, he treats me like a sister kind of. We joke around a bunch and are really close friends. I feel like I can trust him with anything. Anyway, any more help would be greatly appreciated. And hows it going with YOUR crush? LOL. For any good help I might tip you....J/K. Thanx.
~chels~
From Hubby, 3/17/2007
I dont know what to tell you except maybe time will tell
mines goin fine I guess haven't asked/told her yet but I'm thinkin of just biting the bullet and asking and goin from there
its kinda the same boat as you so I'm thinkin Ill go ahead and tell you mine
you
but either way it goes I hope it doesn't change anything if I'm wrong.
From me, 3/18/2007
LOL. thats funny. You're mine. lol. Anywho, thats funny. We both have been talking about each others crushes when all along they were each other...lol. haha. Thanx...you helped A LOT!!!! LOL. I will tip you more than 25 cents this time...lol.

Anyway, that was the start of it really. I am sure I will share more of our HILARIOUS emails...but you'll have to......
Stay Tuned!



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